Lesson 4: Furthering the Conversation

When we proclaim the gospel to others with love and gentleness, most people will be polite but exhibit little interest to learn more about Jesus. This is not a reflection upon the power of God’s Word, but that God is still working in their hearts and minds.

Sometimes an enthusiastic agnostic or a person with a bone to pick with the church will want to get into a debate or argument about some religious point that is a great interest to them. I have learned the hard way that entering a debate has been largely fruitless. Instead, I patiently listen and strenuously attempt to bring all conversations back to Jesus and what he has already done for us.

What about the person who appears sincerely interested to learn more?

After providing a short gospel message, a person seems intrigued by the postcard or your message. They do not appear anxious to leave their door or change the subject. How can you comfortably continue a spiritual conversation?

In his book, Tactics, Gregory Koukl suggests using the phrase, “I’m curious” to ask questions and invite their opinion to help extend a conversation about Jesus.

In the written example with my next-door neighbor from the last lesson, can you find the phrase, “I’m curious” in the message?  What questions did I ask to try and further the conversation?

Inviting opinions and reflections is a safe and comfortable way to start or even continue a spiritual conversation. Listen carefully. Don’t think too much about comebacks or what you can say but listen carefully what they have to say. Acknowledge their answers to your questions. This will help enable you to have wonderful extended conversations about what Jesus has done for us.

Take Action: Complete the reflection questions for this lesson on page 9 of the study guide.